This blog entry will serve as the introduction to this blog.
The title of this blog entry fits as Ethan was HUGE at birth and surprised all of us! But, let me back-up a little...
I am a 29 year old woman that lives in Michigan. I work with delinquent adolescent boys at a treatment facility. I met Ethan's father, Will, at work. Will has since found other employment. Although we are not married, we are happy and live together. Both of us had previous marriages, and Will has three children from his. Thankfully for me, I did not have any children when I divorced.
But, this isn't really what this blog is about. This blog is about my life, and more specifically about my son, Ethan, and my experiences, thoughts, and feelings as a first time Mom.
All things considered, I had a wonderful pregnancy. The last month I had to have non-stress tests due to my size (measuring big!) and the fact that I had extra amniotic fluid. But, there was no morning sickness, no sleepless nights, and no extreme pain (just the normal sore hips when walking my last trimester!)
I had an ultrasound at 35 weeks that really freaked me out. The ultrasound tech was measuring Ethan & asked if I had gestational diabetes. When I replied with "no" she said "Oh, so you did this all yourself!" When we inquired as to how big he was going to be, and I asked if he would be around 8 or 9 pounds she let us know "He is 8lbs 5oz right now!" I panicked for a bit, because I had all of these plans about "natural, drug-free, easy labor" and this baby was much bigger then what I had imagined! My doctor suggested we may want to look into scheduling a C section when the time came, but I was very against it.
At 39 weeks the doctor ordered another ultrasound to check his size and I had a different ultrasound tech. She said that at 39 weeks he was measuring 8lbs, so the doctor thought maybe he just stayed around that size. I hadn't gained any weight at all after 34 weeks.
39 1/2 Weeks
After my due date had come and gone I was then ready to try induction at almost 41 weeks. We made an appointment & I was scheduled to be at the hospital on August 15, 2011 at 7:00 AM.
The night of August 14 I couldn't hardly sleep, my back was bothering me & I just couldn't get comfortable. I thought it was excitement & anxiety about the big day I was going to have, when I would FINALLY get to meet & hold my baby boy.
With the car packed and Will & I ready, we headed to the hospital the next morning. My back was REALLY hurting on & off now, and I told Will I thought it might be contractions when we were on our way to the hospital. I never had any braxton-hicks contractions or any 'false labor' and I wasn't really sure what contractions were 'supposed' to feel like.
When we got up to the hospital they told me it might be awhile till they induced me & took us to our room. I told her I thought I might be having contractions & they put all the monitors on me. My contractions were 1 minute apart, although they didn't last very long! No induction needed. Ethan apparently wanted to come on his own terms :)
I tried 'natural' for 8 hours, using a labor ball, walking around, and trying to cope with the contractions, but I hit my wall & got an epidural. The epidural stopped my contractions & I dialated to 5cm and stopped. They unhooked the epidural (which wasn't dosed right and no longer working) and we tried petocin, which was unhooked almost immediately because Ethan's heartrate was getting lower. The doctor came & talked to me & I agreed to a C-section. We waited two hours for the C-section due to an emergency C-section that they had to do first and alot of bad communication by hospital staff, which was not fun with no pain meds & contractions returning!
Fifteen hours after our arrival at the hospital we finally got to meet our baby boy. Since it was a C-section I couldn't see him when they first took him (they put a tarpish thing up to block you from seeing them do surgery on you) but the first thing I heard was "We have a 3 month old!" Ethan was 10lbs 11oz and 22.5" inches long! Soon I got to hold him and my friends and family got to hold him & meet him too (I had my parents, Will, my sister, and 4 other close friends there that had been waiting to meet him & had been good support for me!)
Ethan right after we got back to our room!
Over the next few days a few nurses stopped in to see the "huge baby" and we heard comments like "I thought he'd be much rounder and chubbier" - he was BIG, but he was long, solid, and strong! He lifted his head up by himself the second day he was alive!
Will, Ethan, & I
So started my journey into motherhood.
Ethan has been a very good baby. He started sleeping through the night at 2 months (I had to go back to work, so this helped me greatly!) and is so full of smiles and fun :)
I have watched Ethan grow & turn into an amazing toddler. He is almost one now & amazes me everyday. He is still big & strong and has been walking since the day he turned 10 months old. He has so much energy!
Now that you know a little more about us, future blog entries will focus on current things (with some stories from the past year mixed in, I'm sure).
Ethan 3 days old, holding his Grandpa's finger